"First Things First"

“First Things First”

 

After graduating from college my brother Dave (not to be confused with my son of the same name) followed in our father’s footsteps and began working in the insurance industry in New York City. After serving our nation in the army for two years he returned to his employer and began to move through the ranks, retiring as an Assistant Vice President after 31 years. Through his vocational path and in his retirement he has honored God with his service and giving and spent quality time with his family.

Around the midpoint of his career Dave met with a supervisor to discuss his long-term objectives. He was told (or at least he got the impression) that moving up the corporate ladder would require his putting the company first. Dave responded that he wasn’t prepared to “demote” God or his family but would be a loyal employee and do the best job he could. God has honored his putting first things first as He did Isaac (see Genesis 26:25) and football legend Tom Landry (see the “Values” article).

As was sadly typical of many young pastors of my generation I made the mistake of equating my relationship with God with ministry. Consequently I wasn’t fair with my family. As time went on God used several factors, including Dave’s example, to show me this was wrong. I then, with His help, made things right by asking Karen, Dave (of the son variety), and Kristie to forgive me. My priorities then changed—and so did my home and ministry circumstances.

All of us are faced with the decision of who or what will be numero uno. Jesus spoke to this question when, in answer to a religious leader’s inquiry about the Law’s greatest commandment, He said, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.” (Matthew 22:37). Once this is settled we’re in a position to “…Seek first (God’s) kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things (i.e. life’s necessities) will be given to you as well.” (Matthew 6:33). When our hearts are right our actions will be as well and God will bless.

Thanks, kid brother, for setting a valuable example of putting first things first. I hope I never forget the lesson. I love you!

Blessings!

Jim McMillan