"Creative Parking"
“Creative Parking”
New Hampshire is known for its snowy winters (and sometimes
falls and springs as well). The white stuff often wreaked havoc on our church
parking lot—about a third of the area vanished due to the piles of plowed snow
and the remaining sections often had the parking lines obliterated resulting in
more lost spaces and inconvenience for members of the congregation. (Shopping
centers and office buildings around town had the same headaches we did.) This
was one of the host of reasons we were happy when spring finally made its
appearance.
Lining parking lots is done to accommodate the most vehicles
in the available area. But far too many drivers seem to practice “creative
parking”, meaning they pay little attention to the space markings and in so
doing make parking for others more difficult. Usually this happens due to
carelessness but sometimes it comes from an “I’ll do as I please” attitude in
which little if any regard is shown for the concerns of others.
Parking stripes aren’t intended to limit freedom but provide
benefit to all. The same is true of God’s directives. The Apostle John assures
us, “(God’s) commands are not burdensome….” (1 John 5:3). And ten centuries
earlier King David wrote, “The precepts of the Lord are right, giving joy to
the heart…in keeping them there is great reward.” (Psalm 19:8,11). So God’s
ways are freeing, not confining.
By practicing “creative obedience” (rationalizing and
twisting what God has said) we’re really being disobedient, which keeps us from
receiving God’s best. Karen and I once met with a young lady from our
congregation who was making poor (and unbiblical) life-style choices to caution
her about the possible consequences of her actions. Her response was, “God
wants me happy.” We acknowledged this was true but only if she was first
obedient to His instructions (“…If you keep looking steadily into God’s perfect
law…and if you do what it says…God will bless you for doing it.”—James 1:25,
NLT). Sadly she opted to go on her own path rather than God’s. My prayer is
that she’ll return to God’s ways and find the happiness and purpose she’s been
seeking.
So when we’re tempted to engage in “creative parking” let’s
use it to remind ourselves to avoid “creative obedience” and for our own good
heed God’s directives.
Blessings!
Jim McMillan